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Toddler crying for no reason? Why it’s happening and useful tips to save your sanity

Here are possible explanations for the waterworks

Child crying in a house by a window.
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Your toddler feels out of control if they are doing this
Toddler pulling hair may mean they're feeling out of control
Toddler pulling their hair

The toddler years are full of development and discovery. Naturally, all those new experiences can be a bit overwhelming for them at times. Toddlers don't always know how to process their emotions which can often lead to some behaviors you may find troubling. They can become frustrated as they try to process all this new information. They don't call them the "terrible twos" for nothing!

While temper tantrums and meltdowns come hand in hand with having a toddler, there are other behaviors that may be a sign that they're not quite feeling like themselves. If your toddler is pulling their own hair, it may be because they feel out of control, which can be completely understandable. Toddlers pulling their hair is a very common behavior and is often a form of self-soothing that helps them cope with stressful situations. If you've noticed your toddler has begun to pull their hair, there are some things you can do to help.
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Teaching your toddler boundaries without hurting your bond
A guide to setting healthy boundaries with your toddler
A toddler on a log with a parent.

Babies are known for gnawing on anything they can get their hands on, including your face! This behavior is cute when you're cuddling your infant, but it becomes much less cute and infinitely more painful when that infant becomes a toddler and has teeth. No magic switch turns your infant into a polite mini human the moment they turn into a 1-year-old. It’s a gradual, years-long process that you’ll guide.

That means teaching the toddler boundaries. It’s a challenge that you and your little one are up for tackling together. Here’s how to handle all of it — and why it’s one of your most important roles as a parent.
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A complete guide on how to get your toddler to start tying their own shoes
Fun tips to help toddlers master shoe tying
A parent teaching a toddler girls how to tie her sneaker

Getting your child to tie their shoelaces isn't always an easy task. Like many milestones, there are no hard and set rules as to when a child will suddenly master this task. While there isn't a magic number as to when kids should reach the shoe-tying milestone, most children master tying their shoes by first grade, while others may accomplish the task with confidence in second or third grade.

Learning to tie shoes is an important accomplishment that can be difficult for some children. While adults think nothing of double-knotting shoes before heading out the door, the simple action is rather involved. Shoe tying encompasses visual perception skills, hand-eye coordination, and defined fine motor skills. Fine motor skills are the small muscles in the hands and fingers. Shoe tying relies on those fingers to make and pull those bunny ears tightly so shoes don't quickly become untied.

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